What not to say to your childhood idol.

The day I met Tom Felton

The awkward tale from meeting one of my favourite actors in 2011 & what not to say when meeting your idol.
I'm so glad my family & best friends weren't there. I swear it was a conspiracy against me. If only I could blame intoxication.

Tom Felton

Better known for his role as Draco Malfoy

I recently had a once in a lifetime opportunity; a chance to meet Tom Felton.. and my mother would be the first to tell you I have been in love with him since I was about 6.

I was absolutely mortified the day I asked him if he liked bowling. I'd given myself a pep-talk for the past month so as not to embarrass myself. Long story short - I was at a convention with him and the camera equipment broke. While they were trying to fix it we stood there in an uncomfortable silence. I panicked.. The words were blurted out before I could stop them. I wanted to be witty and seductive.

My friend was the photographer & he was in hysterics. Tom was a good sport. After being seated in the front row for the Q&A by one of my other friends and having to look him in the eyes as he asked if there were any further questions - and then bailing.. I was so depressed that I didn't take the chance. Once we'd finally left the auditorium , he ran into me again. I got a quick hug and while everyone stared at us he told me that he did like bowling.

This just goes to show: I should not be left to my own devices with people I find attractive. I think he was just relieved I didn't ask him about Harry Potter.

More things you should not say to a celebrity or your idol (thankfully I haven't said any of these):

- I'm going to be visiting (current place they live) this weekend, can I have your number to crash at your place?
- What cup size are you/ is your mother/daughter?
- Boxers or briefs?
- Why don't you grow a moustache?
- Are you a scruncher or a folder?
- Can I have some of your hair for my collection?